"Lurkers"

Okay. I am not asking people to delurk  themselves, persay. But it has come to my attention that I have a serious 'lurker' issue on this here blog. 

According to the all knowing Google Reader I have 44 subscribers- But I have 42 followers via Blogger and on average 3-5 comments a day. 

Now, I know some of my subscribers may be followers as well but I KNOW I have wordpress readers who cannot follow me but can subscribe, as well as people who just subscribe but don't follow or visa versa, so some of those 44 are independent of the 42. I also KNOW that I have people who read me DAILY who are nether a follower or a subscriber. 

I have also seen a decline in comments since I have taken away the option for anonymous comments. Is it b/c the content is lacking? or did you all just like that option? (sn: I know I had some non-bloggers who commented who used that option, I might consider bringing it back, idk yet). You all can thank "Bianca" and "Miss (Mr?) Anonymous" I don't think I have any male readers, how bored would they be reading this blog? Unless they are gay, Do I have any gay readers? Let yourself be known... I love the Gays!! I digress. You can think the aforementioned for me not allowing anon. comments. I am not going to be trashed on my own blog. Thank you but no thanks.

Also if you read my blog- do just that and go about your day. You don't need to discuss it with anyone. I mean seriously this is not the halls of Jr. High. This is not the start of the gossip mill. I am a [young] mommy blogger. I am just living my life. I didn't intend for this blog to be about my "mommyhood" but lets face it- its about my life and since I had E, my life has morphed and molded and its ALL about her. Thats just how it goes. 

I am working on sprucing things up around here. I hope this leads to a more positive atmosphere. 

I love you all. You are seriously the pb to my j!!!

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xo

-Kandid Kelli