tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5921291789050090082.post5438497745250165832..comments2023-03-31T06:18:08.143-04:00Comments on Kandid Kelli: "No Need to be Nasty"Kandid Kellihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09560430709916759595noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5921291789050090082.post-49605076230918629792009-11-18T22:35:38.946-05:002009-11-18T22:35:38.946-05:00I would not worry about what that person said. Obv...I would not worry about what that person said. Obviously there is some unhappiness in her life. Like you stated, it is not for all people, and I often thought about being a surrogate. Do what you feel is right in your heart. No one has the right to judge anyone!mrscravitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06734008259700267954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5921291789050090082.post-6277843678210582232009-11-18T13:44:43.769-05:002009-11-18T13:44:43.769-05:00I am so sorry she said that to you!! If you can d...I am so sorry she said that to you!! If you can do the surrogate thing, you're stronger than I am. I think the only person I could do that for would be my sister. I dont understand why people feel the end to expose their ignorance and intentionally be mean to other.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701435194932397485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5921291789050090082.post-1496300954318420742009-11-18T12:53:51.819-05:002009-11-18T12:53:51.819-05:00oh Katie. I love you. :)oh Katie. I love you. :)Hayleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06173464481096640458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5921291789050090082.post-31493600652286830392009-11-18T10:17:58.233-05:002009-11-18T10:17:58.233-05:00I hope the author of that comment reads this post ...I hope the author of that comment reads this post (and this comment) because I have a few things to say to her:<br /><br />1. Post-partum is not “crap” and, in fact, many infertile women suffer PPD after their own childbirth, the birth of their child through a gestational carrier, and even adoption. It’s extremely common. I think it’s great that you didn’t suffer from it, but there is zero reason for you to put down others who have.<br /><br />2. Surrogacy is a choice. People who choose to be surrogates are angels in disguise for those of us who cannot carry a child on our own. For the record, surrogates get paid (a lot) of money for their service and are not forced to eat or live in any certain way. I know a woman who has been swindled by four different surrogates. Most are just in it for the money so they can buy more drugs and alcohol. Finding someone trustworthy to carry your baby is a rare thing, and you’ve completely disrespected every family who has ever chosen surrogacy as their method of conceiving. And, for the record, your child’s biological mother was essentially a “surrogate” to you—just with “donor” eggs and sperm. She “incubated” your child and then handed him or her over to you after you paid her money. Correct?<br /><br />3. “ They couldn't have a baby for a reason.” And what reason is that, exactly? I’d love to hear your cliché response: God didn’t want them to have one. The couple was undeserving/stupid/poor/young/old/gay/lesbian/biracial/interracial etc. I’m guessing your answer will be all of the above.<br /><br />You are bitter and lacking class, and frankly, the only person uneducated here is you. I strongly suggest you attend a support group for women with infertility. Maybe it will help you curb some of your anger issues.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com